Daddy’s Daughters “TAKEN” – Judge Say’s Dad Doesn’t Have Enough Money To Keep His Children!

Denton County – Texas: In June, 2023 a Denton County Family Court Judge, of the District Court, hearing a divorce and child custody case issues an order allowing the mother of three young girls, ages 7, 7 and 11, to permanently move the children 1,500 miles away from their father and the only home they have even known. The only reason given for this was “I don’t like living in Texas.” This order violates the spirit of the Texas Family Law Guideline that is in place to protect families and parents from this exact type of injustice. 

“Father’s Child Custody Rights”   

The guidline states “The Children must reside in Denton County or in a County contiguous to Denton County.” Maryland is Not adjacent to Denton County, it is half the country away. The only exceptions to this statute are “upon mutual agreement or in the case of family violence” neither are applicable here.

The father is destitute, depressed and heartbroken. When he sees his Children in April it will only be the 4th time in an ENTIRE Year that he has seen them!

He doesn’t know where to turn. His attorney hasn’t been able to help him reunite with his Children. The father tells me “My family is completely destroyed – my life is over. My baby girls were my whole life, my everything, the reason I got out of bed in the morning.” He asks me; “How can something so cruel and abusive happen to a parent, especially in the United States of America. I had my children taken from me because I got tight on money. The judge penalized me because I “might not” be making enough money in the future to take care of my children. What a travesty of injustice and all things Holly. There are a lot of parents in this county with financial challenges that don’t have their children ripped away from them. My relationship with them is nonexistent – I don’t even know how tall they are now. Is this America or a communist or dictatorship nation where the government can take your children from you for no reason at will“.

Now these three young girls will grow up without a father. Statistically, girls that grow up in fatherless homes will do poorly in school, have behavioral problems and be promiscuous and have troubles for the rest of their lives. What a cruel, heartless, selfish thing to happen to a father and his Daughters that they would be ripped apart from each other and have their lives turned upside down by the very court that is supposed to protect them.  

The Texas and Denton County Family Code is entirely structured to:

NO DISRUPTION OF CHILDREN – BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN

• The Children were taken 1,500 miles from their Father:  FAIL
• Judge orders this saying the father doesn’t make enough money to support children. Same Judge then orders father to pay airfare both ways for all 3 children @ $2k per trip on top of child support in able for him to see them: FAIL
• The Children will grow up without a Father: FAIL
• The Children were removed from the only home they have ever known: FAIL
• The Children were taken away from the only school and only teachers they have ever known: FAIL
• The Children were taken away from all of their extracurricular activities:  FAIL
• The Children were taken away from their Church and Sunday School: FAIL
• The Children were taken away from their lifelong pediatrician, dentist, etc: FAIL
• The Children were taken away from all their friends and their pet doggy: FAIL
• The Children were taken away from EVERYTHING they have ever known. FAIL

NO DISRUPTION OF CHILDREN – IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN: REALLY?

If the court simply followed the guideline of the Children shall remain (live in) Denton County or a County continuous to Denton County the Children would still have everything above and both a mother and a father to love and raise them. I’m just asking that the test of reasonableness be applied here. Am I asking too much…

Is anybody listening?

HELP Me Bring My 3 Baby Girls Back HOME to TEXAS!

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Never trust a woman who has broken up her family for personal happiness.  

Hating The Judge? Denton County Child Custody – Fathers Rights

Quite a few folks have said to me “you gotta be hating the Judge, can’t you go after him” or “you have to give him hell or go to the media”. At the first hearing I was extremely angry with the Judge for allowing my X to move so far away with my Children effectively destroying our family forever. I felt like I got run over by a train. All I could do was stand there like a deer in headlights and take it. At the very beginning of the hearing I asked the Judge “Are we only dealing with temporary issues, temporary orders today” – he said yes.  At the end of the hearing I said to the Judge “At the beginning of this hearing you told me that we are only dealing with temporary orders, yet, everything that came out of your mouth affects me and my family permantely for the rest of my life.” He said, Nothing!

At the end of the second brutal hearing the Judge looked in my direction and started talking at me as he always did. When he was done most of the ill will feeling I had towards him melted away. I could tell that the decisions he made about allowing my X to move my Children all the way across the country wasn’t an easy decision for him to make, he didn’t like making it, he cared about the wellbeing of my Children and he thought he was doing the right thing for them. How can I be angry at someone that is trying to help my Children. I in no way agree with his decision and believe he acted out side of the family court guidelines and common sense but I will direct my anger where it belongs for the decisions that were made that will impact me and my Children for the rest of their lives.

HELP Me Bring My 3 Baby Girls Back HOME to TEXAS!

Daddy’s Daughters “TAKEN” – Judge Say’s Dad Doesn’t Have Enough Money To Keep His Children!

Judge Forces Father to Choose Between an Attorney and His Children

Family Support in the Time of Family Crisis

Never trust a woman who has broken up her family for personal happiness.

She is loyal to no one.

Not you, not God, Not even her own blood children.

HELP Me Bring My 3 Baby Girls Back HOME to TEXAS!

When I see my Children at the end of April this will be only the 4^th time I have seen them in an Entire Year!

Thank you for your generous donations and for all of you that have reached out to me but weren’t able to donate. Your words of encouragement and your prayers mean just as much to me. A number of people have reached out to me to make sure that this wasn’t a scam or fake GoFundMe page. The best way to check is to check for yourself. Just click on “Search” and it is an easy search to find my divorce/child custody case – it is all public record. Your contribution, financial or otherwise, is a contribution for justice and families everywhere.

Who this will help

I am the very proud Father of an 11 year old and two 8 year old Daughters. The funds are to go towards our attorney’s retainer deposit. Please HELP Me Bring My Three Baby Girls Back HOME to TEXAS!!!

Why I’m fundraising

Several months ago, out of the blue, my wife said she wanted a divorce. She took my three baby girls and ran off more than 1,500 miles away to live with her sister. The way I read the Texas Family Court Statute is that unless there is mutual agreement or family violence the Children are to remain in Denton County or a County adjacent to Denton County. I don’t know what map the court was looking at but Denton County or Counties adjacent to it are not 1,500 miles away!

When I see my Children at the end of April this will be only the 4^th time I have seen them in an Entire Year! There has been as much as four months between visits with my children. No parent should ever have to guess how tall their children have gotten since they have last seen them – it’s just cruel.

*The only reason I have ever been given for the divorce, for losing my children, having my life destroyed and for my soul being crushed is the X doesn’t like living in Texas. These young girls should not be forced to grow up without a Father. A judge should not consider a selfish request of any parent but should do what is best for the Children – Period!

The Only way I can get around the court’s ruling is to request a Jury Trial – a Jury of my fine Texan Peers. Granted, the law firm that I am hiring is on the expensive side of the spectrum but they are the best at what they do and the future of my family’s existence is literally at stake. The jury trial from start to finish is estimated to be about $30k. Right now I only (only) have to raise $10k for the retainer deposit and this will get me going. Time is of the essence because this whole process needs to be finished before school time in the summer. Please help as much as you can as soon as you can. I can never thank you enough for your consideration.

The impact of your support

Best Case: The Texas Jury grants me full custody of my Baby Girls, they move back into the only home they have ever known, back to the schools, teachers and friends that they know and back into their extracurricular activities. I will be back to the doting, loving daddy doing everything I can for them and shedding as much love on them as they can handle.

Worst Case: I get 50/50 custody with my x and the Children live with my x but the Jury makes the Children move back to Texas, Denton County. This way we can at least follow a normal custody schedule so I can be in my Children’s lives as much as possible as much as the law allows.

Final Case. This Jury, at minimum, will undo the unconscionable act of having my Family ripped apart and separated by 1,500 miles. These innocent children did nothing wrong – they didn’t deserve to lose their daddy…

Fathers Rights – Child Custody – Denton County, Texas

Daddy’s Daughters “TAKEN” – Judge Say’s Dad Doesn’t Have Enough Money To Keep His Children!

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Never trust a woman who has broken up her family for personal happiness.  

She is loyal to no one.

Not you, not God, Not even her own blood children.

It is a Year this Month – Fathers Custody Rights

It is a Year this Month that a misguided parent and the long arm of the law reached into my world ripped my three Baby Girls out of my life and Destroyed My Family – Forever. During this year of injustice, a million tears and a broken heart, at the hands of the people closest to me, I have seen my Children a Total of Four Times. That’s Four Times in an Entire Year!  What human being with half a heart and more than two brain cells thinks that it is in the best interest of my 11 year old Daughter and my two 7 year old Daughters for them to be taken from the only home, school, friends they have ever known and from their dotting Daddy? Apparently, it only takes one disillusion parent and one misguided judge to negatively impact these innocent little girls for the rest of their lives. It’s a crime against nature and all things holly!

My Baby Girls spent their Spring Break here at home with me in Texas. I always love spending time with them but this time it was different. It was magical and one of the most amazing and powerful experiences ever. The Girls stuck to me like glue the entire time they were here. We didn’t even really do anything or go anywhere – what an amazing time we had! We talked about everything under the sun. When they told me that they want to move back home with me here in Texas any doubt that I had in me about my fight for them completely melted away. I balled like a little baby when they left here for Maryland like I usually do but this time was different. I am completely rejuvenated, regenerated, refocused and as ready as ever to be victorious in the fight for my Baby Girls, the fight of my life.

“No one is so dangerous as someone who has nothing to lose and everything to gain.“(Charles Maurice de Talleyrand-Périgord) Except for my Children nothing is off limits – no one is off limits. No one ever has to say “I wonder what their Father is doing?” You know what I am doing – every moment of my life I am working on anything and everything that will help get my Children back in my life permanently, providing for them, and serving God in the process. In the very unlikely event a jury of my Texan piers (10 of 12) don’t follow their conscience, and the guidelines put in place by the State of Texas so this exact thing doesn’t happen to Texas families. Guidelines, which state that the Children must live in Denton County or in a County continuous (next to) to Denton County so the Children can grow up with both of their parents in their lives I am already working on my case for the Appellate Courts should it become necessary. I will never stop fighting – never! 

Due to your unyielding generosity, a lot of work, and from kicking down a lot of doors I have put a legal team together to help get me through the final court case scheduled for this summer. Team? Yes! A paid attorney, an attorney advocate and support from an anonymous national fathers’ rights support group. They will help me take my fight to a Texas Jury of my piers to get this great injustice that was forced upon me and my family reversed so I can bring my Children home and get back to our lives. I thank each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart for your support and generosity. I couldn’t have made it this far without your support. God Bless All of You.

Family Support in the time of Family Crisis: 

Family Support in the time of Family Crisis: Fathers Custody Rights – Denton County – Texas

Judge Forces Father to Choose Between an Attorney and His Children

Hating The Judge? Denton County Child Custody – Fathers Rights

Never trust a woman who has broken up her family for personal happiness.  

She is loyal to no one.

Not you, not God, Not even her own blood children.

Family Support in the time of Family Crisis: Fathers Custody Rights

Where do our Families stand with all of this child custody litigation? Unfortunately, my Parents have passed and all they can do is roll over in their graves when they see the destruction of my Family. I’m sure they are very disappointed. My Sister has been a Godsend. She is the definition of “support”. I can’t believe I allowed myself to drift apart from her over the years I was married. She hasn’t taken to my girls because she is supposed to or because it is the right thing to do. It’s easy to see she loves them wholehearted. Of course we are talking about my Baby Girls here:)

The in-laws, the Burcham Family? Two of them are preachers, one retired after 40 years. I haven’t heard from mom-in-law one time since I lost my Family – not once. I haven’t heard from dad-in-law one time since I lost my Family – not once. I haven’t heard from sister-in-law 1 one time since I lost my Family – not once. I haven’t heard from sister-in-law 2 one time since I lost my Family – not once.

Its a full year later since my Children were forcabily taken from me and moved to Maryland and not once, have any of the members of the Burcham Family called and said “Harry, what’s going on with you and my daughter, my sister? I know there are two sides to every story.” Or, “Harry, I heard about what happened with you and my daughter, my sister are you okay?” Or, “what can I do to help you and my daughter, my sister with your marriage“. Or, “what can I do to help you family stay together“? Or, “what can I do to help so your Family doesn’t get destroyed and so your Children don’t have to grow up with only one parent?” NOT ONCE! And they say they love my Children. REALLY? They should be ashamed of themselves. If one of my Daughters was having problems in her marriage, especially if she had children, I would do anything and everything possible to help them save their marriage and their family. Period!

The in-laws can’t call or offer to help me but I see they are on the witness list to testify against me at my child custody hearing – testifying to all the made up and false reasons why I’m not a good Father to my Children. They haven’t seen me in five years and two of my Daughters are only seven years old. How can they possibly testify as to what kind of Father I am? They are going to look like fools in front of the entire courtroom, the jury and everybody that learns, hears or sees this case play out.

I couldn’t care less if I ever hear from these exceedingly selfish people for the rest of my days but I will be the bigger person and let them visit my Baby Girls after I get them back so they can nurture some type of relationship with them. My Girls don’t know what kind of people they are yet and they love them very much. As my Children get older they will learn what type of people my in-laws really are and what really happened and that will be the end of their relationship. The pastors should be embarrassed to walk into Church next Sunday. They should all be embarrassed to walk out of their front doors. I guess they don’t know that marriage is a lifetime commitment made between two people and God. I will let God deal with them while I focus on fighting for and providing for the three most important people in my life – my Baby Girls.    

Daddy’s Daughters “TAKEN” – Judge Say’s Dad Doesn’t Have Enough Money To Keep His Children!

Hating The Judge? Denton County Child Custody

Judge Forces Father to Choose Between an Attorney and His Children  

Never trust a woman who has broken up her family for personal happiness.  

She is loyal to no one

Not you, not God, Not even her own blood children.

Judge Forces Father to Choose Between an Attorney and His Children

A Denton County Family Court Judge, against the *guidelines set it place for this exact type of case, allows the mother of three young girls, ages 11, 7 and 7, to move them 1,500 miles away from their Father citing that the Father may not make enough money in the future to support his children. He then orders the Father to not only pay child support but to pay for the airfare for his three Children “both ways” if he wants to see them at an average cost of about $2,200 per visit. To put this in perspective, for the Father to see his Children only one time a month, a measly 12 times a year, he would have to pay out more than $25,000 just for airfare!

“What was the Judge thinking? Does you have something against this Father or against all Fathers in general? The Judge set he and his family up for failure!“

I DON’T JUST GRIEVE FOR THE CHILDREN I LOST, I GRIEVE FOR THE ENTIRE LIFE I HAD PLANNED AND ENVISIONED WITH THEM.

That’s right, the Father that the Judge says can’t afford to take care of his family allows the mother to move his children 1,500 miles away from him orders the Father to pay the airfare both ways if he wants to see his children. The result; the Father only saw his Baby Girls a Total of Four (4) times in an Entire Year! What a cruel, traumatic and damaging thing to do to young children and a family. The other destructive result of the unconscionable order; since the Father with no money had to pay $8,800 in airfare to see his children for four times, that Father, now has no money to hire an attorney to represent him in Court in his divorce and child custody case! What chance does this Father have to ever have a relationship with his Daughters?

The only other option the Father had was to save his money for an attorney and see his children zero times in a year. What an impossible, heartbreaking situation to put a parent in.

Maybe:

• the mother who took the children away from their home should pay for the children’s airfare as she is the one that moved them away?
• since the Court took the Fathers ability to hire an attorney away the Court should provide him with an attorney?
• the Judge can reverse his order, follow the guidelines set fourth by the State, and bring the Children back home to Texas and save these little girls futures and maybe save this family?

HELP Me Bring My 3 Baby Girls Back HOME to TEXAS!

Daddy’s Daughters “TAKEN” – Judge Say’s Dad Doesn’t Have Enough Money To Keep His Children!

Hating The Judge? Denton County Child Custody

Family Support in the Time of Family Crisis

Never trust a woman who has broken up her family for personal happiness.  

She is loyal to no one.

Not you, not God, Not even her own blood children.

Investing for Your Future – DFW Real Estate

Over the past few decades, investing in DFW real estate and Dallas foreclosures has gained popularity and became a common investment vehicle for most people. Although the market has lots of opportunities to generate huge gains, acquiring and purchasing real estate is more complicated compared to investing in the stock market. Investing in real estate involves ownership, management, rental, or sale of property to gain profit.

When making your investment decision, you should take into consideration these characteristics:

 

• Transaction cost – this is significant in real estate market compared to other investments. Realtors would agree that it is ideal to buy larger assets because you can divide the transaction costs to a larger base. It is costly to operate DFW real estate because it requires regular maintenance.
• Weather you buy property through the MLS or a We Buy Houses company, most real estate requires ongoing management. You should acquire someone who will be responsible in dealing with the day-to-day operation. You may also need a strategic management that will focus on your property’s long term market position. Management services are also costly and require resources and time.
• Investing in rental houses property demands amount of time and work so you could maintain this investment. It comes along with many responsibilities you have as the landlord of the house.

Like any other investment, may it be real estate like homes, there is so much potential an individual can see. However, this doesn’t mean you will have a sure gain, so it’s better to make intelligent choices and weigh the pros and cons before actually having your first investment. If you are searching for a property, you will need the help of a professional DFW real estate agent to browse listings on the neighborhood. They may also have information not included in the listings that will benefit you.

 

Why Invest in DFW Real Estate

 

This kind of investment can overwhelm most people. There are various areas to consider as well; finding a good property and acquiring trustworthy renters seem challenging. However, one’s small efforts can gain big rewards as there are countless benefits of having an investment property.

 

1. You can fully decide whether to have commercial or residential, offices, or small establishments to invest with. There are many options possible for you. It is better to decide on the property you are familiar with.
2. The value of your property grows together with the increasing community. Prices of real estate are steadily increasing over the years.
3. Real estate is a good option for long term investments. Most of us like the idea of acquiring an investment that will fund us in our retirement. Thus, this kind if investment increases in value compared to savings in banks.
4. This investment also offers positive monthly cash flow. It will increase in time and will give you source of secure retirement income.
5. Deductions can be claimed upon filing your tax return. This may include loan interests, maintenance and repair costs, agent’s fees, insurance, and building depreciation. This will help a person save more money.

There are plenty of benefits a person can have upon investing in real estate. You might be hesitant to invest at first but with proper knowledge and research, you may want to pull the trigger and start investing.

Important Tips about DFW Real Estate

Real estate investing involves buying, owning, managing and selling or renting real property for profit. These investments have in the past out performed equity markets. However, they have very low liquidity and are also very capital intensive, although financing can be obtained through mortgages.

What to consider when investing in DFW real estate

 

When you are going into Southlake real estate,   it is important to determine the cost of mortgage, loan repayments, the price of insurance and how much it will cost to maintain and operate the building. Also consider the possibility of ending up with vacancies and how much you need to spend on marketing to have the houses full.

 

If you want to ensure that the income from your investment will be worth the effort, Look at the prices of similar homes in the area and rental costs of comparable houses. You don’t want to invest all your resources in a building only to learn later that the market rate is not enough to help you recoup your investment.

        

Another thing to consider is the effect of taxes on your investment. Wherever you are, there are state, city and county laws that govern local taxes on Trophy Club real estate. There are also federal taxes levied on income from rental properties. Taxes can have a very significant effect on your cash flows. Though it’s not possible to evade them, you can certainly do something to ensure that you reduce your exposure.

 

How to go about buying homes

 

There may be many homes in the market but finding the right North Richland Hill real estate to buy can often be a challenge. When you want to buy a home, the first step is usually to find that home. Take advantage of all the options you can lay your hands on to find the best homes in the market. These may include searching for listings online and using a realtor.

 

The second thing to consider is your financing options. These may include loans, mortgages and personal savings. First time home buyers may benefit from federal backed loans. Consider your mortgage interest rates and other terms in the mortgage agreement and the impact they will have on your purchase decision.

 

The next thing is to make an offer. A realtor will advise you on the amount of an offer to make for a given property and any conditions you may have to fulfill. The seller may accept the offer or issue a counter offer. If the seller accepts the offer, you will then proceed to make a deposit, which will effectively lead to the escrow process; a period of 30 days during which the house is removed from the market for the buyer’s inspection, with the expectation that  if he finds nothing seriously wrong with the house, he buys it.

 

During the inspection, you need a realtor to do the job on your behalf. The house may appear perfect, but an expert inspection may reveal flaws that your own eyes can’t see. The expert will ideally evaluate the safety of the home, the functionality of the systems and the overall condition of the building. If the inspection report is negative, you will have to rescind the contract and recover your money. If there are no significant problems with the building, you can close the deal by way of signing an agreement.

Selling Your DFW Property Effectively

Selling your house requires more than just putting a signage saying “house for sale”. For you to have an edge among the other houses for sale, you have to market it to prospective buyers. You can achieve it by ensuring that your home listing is appealing and can deal with all the necessary paperwork needed for selling your home.

When placing your house for sale, it is essential to work with a real estate professional. Keep in mind that not all real estate agents are Realtors. The agent should be a member of the National Association of Realtors to be one. Most of us have a common misconception that realtors and Irving real estate agents are the same. 

 

Making the Right Home Listing

 

Homes and other Las Colinas real estate for sale can get a second look if they have the right description with them. Buyers can be turned-off in a matter of seconds if the descriptions don’t fit right. One should capture the buyers’ attention by saying things right and eliminating things that are better left unsaid.

 

·         You should highlight unnoticeable amenities. The description of the houses should include things that are not obviously seen. You may add up great views or oversized garage in your listing. Your Richardson real estate agent must know the things to be described.

 

·         Be more specific in your property description. State features or brands that most buyers would want to have rather than just saying “beautiful kitchen” or “attractive garden”. Drop branded names of appliances and countertops. State appealing features such as walk-in pantry and pull out shelves.

 

·         Find the right adjectives and avoid too much fluff. You don’t have to lie and make stories but if the adjective fits the bill, by all means, feel free to use it to describe your property. However, don’t exaggerate. Build your buyers’ expectations without falling short in real life.

 

·         Misspelled words and poor grammar can be a huge deterrent in conveying your message to your buyers. Have your real estate agent check it with you to avoid sending the wrong message.

 

Learn from the Experts

 

You can acquire more tips and advices from professional realtors online on how to improve the value of your property and increase the chance of having it sold. Various sites are offering advices on short selling homes, home improvements, and pricing your property accordingly.

 

Also, they can help you learn how to deliver your property’s biggest selling points including amenities the neighborhood has or the houses’ proximity to schools and grocery stores and shops in the community. If you are looking for inspiration in making real estate description, there are available descriptions online as well. The secret of best selling real estate agents is by keeping the buyers intrigued about the property, but not to the extent that they would get sick. The goal is to entice the buyer by telling them important things they should know such as the number of bedrooms, price, and location of the house and not giving them too much information to digest.

The Effective Habits of Highly Successful DFW Real Estate Agents

Being a real estate agent is not exactly a walk in the park. If you wish to be the best in the field, there are lots of things to know about, skills to learn and tips to apply. In fact, we would have to create an entire book if you wish to know a lot of tips about being successful in the industry. However, we all do not have time for that, do we? Instead, we will be giving you some of the most essential tips to help you become the best agent there is.

 

SuccessfulMurphy Real Estate Agents Always Come With a Plan

 

Most people opt for this type of career because of the time freedom that comes with it. However, this can also be the root of your downfall. Instead of just going where your feet will take you, it is best that you have a plan for each and every day. Have a set of goals and come up with action steps that will help you achieve that plan. Establish a foolproof plan on how you can generate listings. When you have a daily plan, you will be able to have a roadmap to success. Plus, you can get to avoid encountering any costly problems along the way.

 

Successful Parker Real Estate Agents Build Their Brand

 

Even if working for a well-known brokerage is beneficial, your efforts should not just stop there. Your success or failure still relies on how you will do things. Most successful agents realize how important it is to establish their very own brand. Your brand is all about the marketing materials that you have, the advertising strategies that you employ, the kind of niche you are in, and the way you do business. There is nothing wrong in being a part of the team; however, you must strive to be the star team player.

 

Successful Princeton Real EstateAgents have A Full Grasp of Online Marketing

 

These days, almost all people go online to jumpstart their home buying process. Being visible to this crowd can certainly increase your chance of being successful in the industry. Most successful real estate agents have their branded and professional website. When you have a website, it can be very easy for you to establish credibility and at the same time, generate leads.

 

Finding Your Way to Real Estate Success

 

At times, having the knowledge and skills about your job is not enough. With the number of agents out there today, being the best can be quite difficult. By offering added services to your clients, you can easily be recognized, and you can easily establish your brand. During times like this, drizzling your own syrup recipe over the cherry on top is the best way to achieve success!